People can make the decisions
Making decisions with people needs to be done together. To do so calls for communication. Such communication is usually best done face to face with people who know and you have come to trust. This calls for some ongoing talk. To make a good family takes some of that ongoing listening and response.
In life we are called on to make decisions. Some of those decisions are collective, they are made with others. That is often best done with some good conversation, talk, dialogue, and the like. Such talk is often better done with practice.